I simply am. I don't drag the past with me. Not trying to get to tomorrow. I appreciate now and take advantage of what's in front of me. No additives (my body is my own), no preservatives (not one to wear makeup), active and youthful. 5'4" 114, very athletic and love to do anything physical. Creative, crafty, and mechanically inclined. Never hear me complain about my weight or physique...I refuse to lose my girlish figure. However, I am not the workout fiend you all may think I am.
I don't believe that I will ever be 100% of what any of you are looking for just as none of you will ever be 100% of what I wish for. What are the odds? Since most of you are looking for your soulmate, the odds are slim. You aren't suppose to marry your soulmate....a soulmate is merely someone from a past life that you feel a connection with (which most of you don't believe in anyway), and you may not even have liked them back then...hahahaha.
I am looking to share me with someone on all levels connecting socially, spiritually, mentally and physically long term, but let's start with the dating process and not get too far ahead of ourselves. Want to spend time and energy on someone who reciprocates and likes me for me. Not asking you to like everything I do, but appreciate it and respect it as I would respect your golf days with the guys and fantasy "Whatever". We need those other outlets so we have things to share with each other.
I don't need or want your money, just your time and energy. I enjoy movies, ballgames, carnivals, dinners, festivals, travel, par 3, fishing, boating, and sports. Our adventures together could be limitless; scuba dive for lobsters, horseback ride, ski the hillside, take a long drive, see the country side, be outside, yardwork, barbecuing, go on a sleigh ride, cuddled up by your side, walk in the park, holding hands making all around us jealous, run in the dark, chase the lightening bugs or you, play cards or board games, love shuffleboard, shoot pool or hoops, bike, rollerblade, play on the beach or by the pool in my bikini w/you.
I will do anything with a confident person. I realize every day can't be spent doing active and exciting things together, but I want to make the times the best I can, even if it is making dinner or running errands together. I am an ENT P/J for those that care. (Extrovert, Intuitive, Thinking, Perceiving/Judging)
It's all about chemistry (realize we are talking about immune systems, right?) and compatibility (life paths/patterns, etc.). If you have an altered immune system, due to controlling medications, this probably won't work. I am easy to talk to, but in person, if the chemistry is missing and there isn't enough in common to keep conversation going, then it's just not going to work. We are all looking for someone with certain personality traits, characteristics, mannerisms, and that all important chemistry, and when we find someone close, we have to hope like heck we are whom they are looking for! We are all a result of our experiences. It's what we do with those experiences that makes us worth someone else's time. If we dwell on those experiences and constantly compare everything to them, we will not enjoy now.
I have played coed softball (6-3 from the mound) and volleyball. I like to rollerblade, play tennis and shoot hoops in my spare time. I referee high school basketball through the winter. Look forward to the summer and some down time! My charitable efforts are with my career field and interest in art. Have been the President of a state organization. I am also on the coordinators committee for a local art council. I like a variety of music (Soul, blues, Jazz, dance) for listening and dancing. Sax practice is going well. Started surf lessons to be continued next season! Paddle-paddle. A bunch of dolphins swam all around me during my first lesson! Very cool.
Soooooo, be in the NOW, be natural, no mind or chemistry altering meds. Be willing to get to know me before you test drive me. Trust goes a long way. Be fit, (a guy with a gut turns me right off~you know what turns you off, well so do I. It's those little creases over the hip bone that do it for me, and if you have a gut, I can't see them! hehehe) take care of your mind and body and like athletic things, like to be pampered, but enjoy reciprocating from time to time. If more people were fit, this might not be so difficult. Cuddling in front of the fireplace is a must. Doing house and yard projects together is great but I'm sure we can find other adventures. You have your friends, I have mine. You have a playful side. You are capable of holding a conversation even if it is only with your eyes...lol...You look forward to talking with me or seeing me and getting in touch with yourself and me. You enjoy exploring and entertaining and private times with me exploring and entertaining as well...lol...
My pics are recent!!!!! Please have recent pics too without sunglasses on! I need to see your eyes! I would never want to mislead anyone, not fair to you and I would be too embarrassed to show up looking other than these pics. Please respect that and do the same. Not fond of facial hair guys! Especially when it looks scruffy and unkept. Also, be over your ex and fully divorced. I do not care to be a rebound or a filler while the two of you take a break to figure things out. How selfish can you be? You might have children, but I am not looking to have any at this age. Too risky and a huge lifestyle change! Just look at the state of our youth today? Children are at least a 20 year commitment if they are healthy.
